Unexpected personal losses, shocking life events and radical changes can happen all at once or in waves. When they come, they can hit you like a “personal tsunami” that overwhelms and destroys life as you know it. When mine hit, I felt that darkness of grief, that daunting fear of the unknown, totally disoriented and paralyzed. I believed the best years of my life were over and felt hopeless about the future. I was so knotted up, I could barely breathe!
There I was, known for most of my life as a strong, resourceful problem solver and change agent. Yet, when my world fell apart, I didn’t have a clue about what to do next!
Two years later, my “a-ha” moment came after I had finally broken through my tunnel of darkness and over to the other, lighter side of life. I could b-r-e-a-t-h-e again. I felt alive, energized and hopeful, as I redefined myself, my life and my priorities with clarity. I could go out socializing and dancing again. That’s when I realized I had evolved through stages of my own butterfly-like metamorphosis. From that process, I learned the most important lessons of my life!
I vowed to find a way to share those lessons and the wisdom I gained to help others facing similar personal loss and traumatic life changes move through the process in a better, faster way and on the path to healing, transformation and a new stage of life.
I created the vision, started building this new platform, then had some health issues and setbacks. But, I kept moving forward. Now, I’m ready to fly with this first posting to my new blog, the Path2Butterfly Forum!
To get unstuck can feel impossible…but it’s not! If you’re stuck and struggling from your own “personal tsunami” of loss and life changes, the Path2Butterfly Forum is here to help!
LESSON NUMBER 1 – What doesn’t kill you, transforms you. Never give up! Just have the courage to take the first steps and you’re on your PATH to healing and a new stage of life. The rest gets easier!
Today, I’ve taken my first steps to launch the Forum. Please take yours by signing up to join us at path2butterflyforum.com today by entering your email address to the left of my Home page and you’ll receive my free gift to you – SIX TIPS FOR COPING WITH RADICAL CHANGE! It’s loaded with practical advice and action steps to get you started on your PATH.
You’ll also receive my regular Path2Butterfly Forum blog posts with much more on the important lessons I learned, the wisdom I gained and the sources for answers I used to help me through my process. Also, check out my Resources page for a start with some listings and links to web sites, books and CD’s I found helpful along the way.
Please share your comments and ask questions. If there are others in your circle going through loss and major changes in their lives, please reach out and let them know about path2butterflyforum.com and how they can benefit, too.
Together, let’s inspire each other to grow, transform and soar even higher!